June 24th 2017

Rant

Just a few tips world... *regarding moms of angels*

1. Do NOT send them the book "what to expect in baby's first year" two months after they gave birth to their sleeping child... I'm sorry, my first year will NOT be anything like that whatsoever. #thanksbutnothanks

2. Do NOT private message them "Congratulations on having your baby!! They're so cute!! I sell bla bla bla And I thought you might be interested!" 

I think fumes came out my ears on that one... after I stopped crying of course. 

3. Do NOT tell them "yeah but life goes on and you just get over it." Ummmmmm 😳

I was literally stunned into silence, like I couldn't respond. 

4. Do NOT comment "CONGRATULATIONS" on their announcement post about their baby being born straight into heaven.. like maybe read before you comment? 🤷🏼‍♀️

5. Do NOT say "hi mommy" everyday in passing unless you see a baby even if you did see them 9 months prego before and now the bellys gone. When they finally asked "where's the baby?" Two weeks after calling me mommy everyday I explained her heart stopped while I was in labor. 

Just don't be dumb. Ok? 

*edit: not looking for sympathy here. I just don't want these things to happen to some other mama. Also, I'm not even gonna write the most inconsiderate one... I know people have good intentions. But man do they have a weird way of showing it sometimes.*